1. believe I have failed at everything and hold onto it<div>2. Do not put any ideas into action</div><div>3. Lack validity in myself. I think I have limits</div><div>4. Believe my flaws are a part of me, not traits I have developed due to bad habits</div><div>5. self doubt</div><div>6. I do not separate big problems from little problems. do not bring sup my issues with another person in the middle of a petty argument</div><div>7. Don’t expect people to have my interests and just bc I can tell that they don’t doesn’t mean they’re&nbsp;</div><div>8. Observe more, make sure there is a 2 sided conversation. Making other people feel comfortable is important. Asking them to contribute</div><div>Building rapport is always important before discussing ideas. Can make more small talk</div><div>9. Have more conversations with people where I have a fundamental disagreement with that person; when it comes up, find out more about their opinion. Any disagreement will turn them off. Agree with parts of their argument, or see parts of their perspective, then they will want to see your point of view</div><div>10. better to change opinions of people who don’t respect me to begin with</div><div>11. Forgiveness will relieve a lot of my frustrations</div><div><br></div><div>12.She hates when I stop her from talking. jumping to conclusions bc I hadn’t listened to and then thought about everything she wanted to say.&nbsp;</div><div>13. Focus more on enjoying the good things about each other.&nbsp;</div><div>14. Think before speaking.</div><div>15.&nbsp;</div><div><br></div>